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Why Divorce is Worse than Death
Why Divorce is Worse than Death - Click to Watch On YouTube To say that divorce is "just a piece of paper" is dismissive and insensitive as fuck because it takes more of you than just that. If your marriage took your balls, and half your income, divorce is like the death of a loved one. I don’t use this word often—never have, actually—but this post is transformative. Why? Because by the end of this, you’ll be able to pinpoint exactly why this pain—your pain—is killing you and
Rene Garcia
Dec 4, 20257 min read


Divorce Recovery for Men: The New York Times Just Put Divorce Coaching in the Spotlight. Here’s Why That Matters for Men
Most men get crushed in divorce because they go in blind. They spiral in silence. They sit in therapy for years, waiting for answers that never come. They listen to lawyers talk paperwork but never tell them how to get their life back.
That’s why you need a coach.
The New York Times featured my work because I’m not here to hand you a box of tissues and say, “Tell me how that makes you feel.” I’m here to give you the plan, the strategy, the real-time answers to stop spiralin
Rene Garcia
May 25, 20256 min read


Tactics to Begin Focusing on Yourself - Life After Divorce for Men
Because we have it all wrong fellas. Focusing on yourself doesn't mean to be alone. To the contrary, it means to learn about yourself
Rene Garcia
Mar 26, 202511 min read


Divorce Preparation for Men: What You Need to Know
Dramatic Relationship Shift: January's "Divorce Month" Sparks Emotional Reactions and New Beginnings. Click on Picture to Watch Entire...
Rene Garcia
Dec 27, 20243 min read


The QoL SALAD Study: What 717 Divorced Men Reveal About Divorce Recovery
The Quality of Life Survey About Life After Divorce (QoL SALAD Study) is an observational study of 717 divorcing and divorced men examining recovery time, exercise, dating, finances, identity, living arrangements, acceptance, and father-child relationships after divorce.
Rene Garcia
Oct 29, 20249 min read


Is Forgiving Your Ex-Wife After Divorce Essential to Moving On?
You don’t need to forgive your ex to heal. Just let go of the resentment, focus on your development. Forgiveness is not what you think
Rene Garcia
Sep 25, 20245 min read


What to Prepare When Meeting the Guardian Ad Litem (GAL)
What to Have Ready when Meeting the Guardian ad Litem What to Prepare when Meeting the Guardian Ad Litem GAL If You Don’t Think She’s Doing This, You’re 100% Mistaken. Get Yours And Your Children's Shit Together. The guardian ad litem, or GAL, has an important job: to represent the best interests of the child in custody cases. When you meet with them, it’s essential to be prepared so you can make the best possible case for yourself as a parent. If you’re working with a divor
Rene Garcia
Jul 11, 20244 min read


Meeting Your Ex’s New Man
Click On Picture to Watch on YouTube If you’re going through a divorce, the very idea of your ex dating again is a mind fuck but if you...
Rene Garcia
Apr 22, 20246 min read
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