Most divorce coaches help you manage the divorce. That is useful. It is also only about 35% of what a man needs.

Men’s Divorce Coaching helps you divorce intelligently while recovering aggressively.

DIVORCE INTELLIGENTLY

Before you hire an attorney, we figure out what kind of divorce you actually have. Mediation or litigation? Negotiator or fighter? Financial complexity, military benefits, a business, custody or a high-conflict spouse?

Then we prepare you to use your attorney intelligently, control unnecessary legal expenses, negotiate without letting emotion destroy your position, protect your role as a father and avoid the five minutes of stupidity that can follow you through the rest of your case.

I do not replace your attorney or give legal advice. I help you become a prepared, strategic client instead of an expensive, frightened one.

RECOVER AGGRESSIVELY

Surviving the divorce is not the finish line.

We are not here to get you over your ex. MeDiCo is here to help you build a life so strong that one day you realize your ex was only the spark that led you to us.

Recovery is structured around your actual life: Gallup CliftonStrengths, physical and mental wellbeing, fatherhood, confidence, style, identity, social life and dating.

You do not need more generic advice about “giving it time.” You need a plan, specific work to complete and someone who follows up until the work gets done.

A SYSTEM, NOT A WEEKLY CONVERSATION

During the first month, we generally meet twice each week. You leave with specific work. I follow up between sessions. We examine what happened, fix what failed and build the next move on the progress you already made.

During the second month, we typically meet weekly. You continue to have access to me between consultations, because divorce does not wait politely for your next appointment.

MEASURED RESULTS, NOT PROMISES

To the best of my knowledge, MeDiCo is the only men’s divorce and recovery coaching program that has systematically tracked and published quality-of-life outcomes from both divorcing men and its own clients.

The QoL-SALAD Study collected self-reported data from 717 divorcing and divorced men. Men in their first three months averaged approximately 55 in quality of life. Men separated for two years or longer averaged approximately 74.

Tracked MeDiCo clients entered coaching at an average of 59 and reached an average of 83 within approximately three to six months.

The study is observational, self-reported and not a randomized clinical trial. It shows associations, not guaranteed outcomes. Individual results vary.

WHAT YOU WALK AWAY WITH

A smarter divorce strategy.

Better use of attorneys and lower avoidable costs.

A deliberate approach to custody and fatherhood.

Stronger health, confidence, identity and style.

The ability to date as a man with choices, not a man desperate for validation.

You are not hiring someone to hold your hand while you wait for the pain to disappear. You are building a system designed to move your life forward.

Begin now. You are already behind, and you have a hell of a lot of catching up to do.

Men’s Divorce Coaching provides strategic preparation, personal coaching and recovery support. It does not provide legal representation, financial advice or mental-health treatment.